Purposeful singleness

A friend emailed me the short story, The Room by Joshua Harris from I Kissed Dating Goodbye
Amazon says, "I Kissed Dating Goodbye shows what it means to entrust your love life to God. Joshua Harris shares his story of giving up dating and discovering that God has something even better—a life of sincere love, true purity, and purposeful singleness."  I might be swinging this the wrong way but I would like to have purposeful marriedness :) I would like to entrust my love life to God but not just because I want him to help me have a mate that will make me the most happy and comfortable but I would like to entrust my love life to God because I want him to help me have a mate that will partner with me to share the Lord's word the most!!